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The Bottom Line on Spanking
Many of today’s kids don’t fear their parents. I’m talking about a healthy respect. We are so worried about abuse that we have gone headlong the opposite direction.
But physical discipline, according to the
scripture, is not a violation to avoid, it is a principle to be practiced. Ill.-- According to a news report, a certain private school in Victoria recently was faced with a unique problem. A number of 12-year-old girls were beginning to use lipstick and would put it on in the bathroom. That was fine, but after they put an their lipstick they would press their lips to the mirror, leaving dozens of little lip prints. Every night, the maintenance man would remove them and the next day, the girls would put them back. Finally the principal decided that something had to be done. She called all the girls to the bathroom and met them there with the maintenance man. She explained that all these lip prints were causing a major problem for the custodian who had to clean the mirrors every night. To demonstrate how difficult it had been to clean the mirrors, she asked the maintenance man to show the girls how much effort was required. He took out a long-handled squeegee, dipped it in the toilet, and cleaned the mirror with it. Since then, there have been no lip prints on the mirror. There are teachers, and then there are educators...
But God is wise and we would be wiser than
Dr. Spock if only we would recognize that pain is a primary motivator and
some of the deepest and best lessons are learned thru it.
Ill.—a school in NYC had a chain fence for years, until some said that boundary would stifle the kids in their imaginations. They took it down, and noticed the kids no longer ventured out far, they huddled all the more in the center. I believe kids want boundaries and recognize the safety and concern adults show to them when they give them limits.
“Hands” are not to be used for spanking because they are for guiding and comforting a child. The rear end seems specially designed for receiving pain without suffering internal damage. So apply the board of education to the seat of knowledge!
Parents who cannot control their temper
should not spank their children, until they learn to control themselves.
Children are not "punching bags." Ill.—a mother giraffe kicks its young just as it is beginning to learn to walk, knocking it down. It looks cruel, but eventually the youngin’ is quick enough to rise and scamper away untouched. Only the strongest survive. Like the mother bird that pushes the little one out of the nest, tough love is a favor our kids will come to appreciate.
How many here were spanked? Keep your hand up if it was done properly. Keep it up if you appreciate it!
Ill.—I thought it was cruel when my dad pulled up next to a dog chasing our car and hit him in the head by opening his car door…until I realized he actually probably just saved his life!
Proverbs 19:18 I’m not saying for you to leave marks on your child, and today you are libel to get into trouble if you do. I believe the above verse actually is not speaking about discipline, but my dad DID! And I would have to testify that it worked!
After the spanking, the child should be asked
to spend some time in quiet, reflecting on his deed - after which the parent
should talk to him and re-explain his actions. In a healthy parent-child
relationship, the greatest pain is that of disappointing the parents, and
God.
Proverbs 29:17 [portions from message by Dr. Larry L. Thompson]
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